I like the fact that you are a friendly player who doesn't want to fight but what if a clan mate is being attacked/gangbanged by some PPLVs or XAs, will you help your clan mate? Or will you let him/her die just because you don't want to fight against them? (I'm talking about fair fights)
Well, as much as possible, I WOULD protect clanmates up to death. But before this, the first thing I would do is to do my best to speak with the involved clan, and their leader and talk to them in peace so that the fights will be finished.